Dear Ava,

Since I didn't hear from you I followed through with the Police Report.
I included:
1) Not hearing from you or knowing your whereabouts for the past 7 months.
2) The slander done to me by Dan & His Bitch (now ex-wife) Dan's family members, my family members and you can add to it people who say they know me but don't, to the point of no return and me not being able to find employment and being persecuted for child abuse by my co-workers and superiors (not to mention "Hooking") all of which never happened, but thanks to the slander by Dan & his family, I have to put up with all this. Slander is a criminal offense. (That part's true).
3) Other miscellaneous details.
Yes, under the circumstances, they will follow up.
I'm picking your sister up to come for a visit today.If I disappear or any harm comes to me, they have the report. (That part's true)
I've decided to set up a BLOG "AVA WHERE ARE YOU, LOVE MOM, XOXOX" with all the sordid details that will put ~"MONICA'S MOTHER"~ to shame. It's in the works with your picture hoping someone who knows you will reply.



Has anyone else had a similar experience? Is there a pattern to this? I know of so many others who have taken this path after divorce. Is this a set-up?

Has anyone ever had their lawyer feed them this line after taking away their spousal support?

"It may be you in his new wife's shoes next. Who would want a man who pays a chunk of his income to his ex-wife? No one wants a man like that."

At this point you know you're on death row, compliments of your Canadian divorce lawyer.

I know what you're thinking ... ... this must be ~"The Curse of the Canadian Divorce Lawyer"~ deal. Yes, indeed it is! Well, since when can lawyers be trusted in Canada? Since when can anyone with a University degree be trusted in Canada? Yes, they can be trusted as long as they live a life of leisure, in the lap of luxury while keeping everyone else underfoot. Sounds to me like they want to fill the shoes of the Royal Family. What's the difference? The difference being that, YES, it is the Royal Family's place to have the upper hand in Canada and not the place of schmoes with University degrees.

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Ava Decides to Get in Touch with Mom

Hi Mom,

I'm sorry you were alone on Christmas.

You can keep my confirmation cross, even though you and Dad raised me Catholic, I haven't been a practicing Catholic since high school. I'm sorry if this disappoints you.

Monica had a good birthday, she was up north at a resort on Lake Of Bays with us for the weekend. We celebrated her birthday on the 17th, and then on the 18th Mike and I got married.

I'm sorry I didn't invite you, but you and I have a lot of things we need to work out before we can have a normal, healthy relationship, and I didn't feel that I could have you at my wedding.

I think that there are people who can help us, would you be willing to speak with them?


Oh, Ava,
Since it's come to this, why not! There's nothing left.
Well, this is a milestone! Going on a year of unanswered emails and six months of unanswered phone calls my little one has decided to reply. What ingratitude from a child to treat a parent in such a way as this. Of course, I'm willing to go to therapy ~ at her cost, of course.
This "Nice, Nice" world she lives in has her walking around convinced she's more important than her mother and probably that she's the most important person in the world. Why, I'm sure everyone she associates with tells her I don't deserve her. What would provoke a child to break her mother's heart this way? Is this masocistic behaviour? If this child of mine isn't brainwashed then what's her problem?
Stay tuned for more updates ... ... ...

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