Dear Ava,

Since I didn't hear from you I followed through with the Police Report.
I included:
1) Not hearing from you or knowing your whereabouts for the past 7 months.
2) The slander done to me by Dan & His Bitch (now ex-wife) Dan's family members, my family members and you can add to it people who say they know me but don't, to the point of no return and me not being able to find employment and being persecuted for child abuse by my co-workers and superiors (not to mention "Hooking") all of which never happened, but thanks to the slander by Dan & his family, I have to put up with all this. Slander is a criminal offense. (That part's true).
3) Other miscellaneous details.
Yes, under the circumstances, they will follow up.
I'm picking your sister up to come for a visit today.If I disappear or any harm comes to me, they have the report. (That part's true)
I've decided to set up a BLOG "AVA WHERE ARE YOU, LOVE MOM, XOXOX" with all the sordid details that will put ~"MONICA'S MOTHER"~ to shame. It's in the works with your picture hoping someone who knows you will reply.



Has anyone else had a similar experience? Is there a pattern to this? I know of so many others who have taken this path after divorce. Is this a set-up?

Has anyone ever had their lawyer feed them this line after taking away their spousal support?

"It may be you in his new wife's shoes next. Who would want a man who pays a chunk of his income to his ex-wife? No one wants a man like that."

At this point you know you're on death row, compliments of your Canadian divorce lawyer.

I know what you're thinking ... ... this must be ~"The Curse of the Canadian Divorce Lawyer"~ deal. Yes, indeed it is! Well, since when can lawyers be trusted in Canada? Since when can anyone with a University degree be trusted in Canada? Yes, they can be trusted as long as they live a life of leisure, in the lap of luxury while keeping everyone else underfoot. Sounds to me like they want to fill the shoes of the Royal Family. What's the difference? The difference being that, YES, it is the Royal Family's place to have the upper hand in Canada and not the place of schmoes with University degrees.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Yesterday was Ava’s 24th birthday.  I would have been so happy to have spent some time with her but she didn’t return my emails or phone calls so I spent the day by myself, as usual.  I'm not sure that she's still alive since it's been at least six months that I called her and she spoke a few words and then hung up on me. Is this any way to treat a mother?  The circle she spends time with and her new husband must think so or she wouldn't treat me this way.  What causes a daughter to turn on her mother this way? "It’s not about you, it’s about her,"  as my younger daughter keeps reminding me.

As luck would have it, I found a message in my newspaper yesterday giving me a glimmer of hope:


"Why must we wait until our daughters are adults?  Why can’t the divorce laws be enforced at the time of divorce?  In my case, I was given full custody of my youngest by Children’s Aid and then, at the time of divorce, our attorneys decided on joint custody.  They wouldn’t have it any other way.  What gave them this right?  Shortly afterwards the alienation began by my ex-husband, his lady he had waiting in the wings and my ex-in-laws.  Seven years have passed and I’ve been slandered to the point of no return and I’M THEIR MOTHER!  How did this happen to me?  The lawyers made sure of it and so did the community we lived in."

This must be "The Curse of the Divorce Lawyer".~  Once divorced you plummet to the bottom of the heap and never,  ever get back on your feet as we've all seen happen time and time again.

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