Dear Ava,

Since I didn't hear from you I followed through with the Police Report.
I included:
1) Not hearing from you or knowing your whereabouts for the past 7 months.
2) The slander done to me by Dan & His Bitch (now ex-wife) Dan's family members, my family members and you can add to it people who say they know me but don't, to the point of no return and me not being able to find employment and being persecuted for child abuse by my co-workers and superiors (not to mention "Hooking") all of which never happened, but thanks to the slander by Dan & his family, I have to put up with all this. Slander is a criminal offense. (That part's true).
3) Other miscellaneous details.
Yes, under the circumstances, they will follow up.
I'm picking your sister up to come for a visit today.If I disappear or any harm comes to me, they have the report. (That part's true)
I've decided to set up a BLOG "AVA WHERE ARE YOU, LOVE MOM, XOXOX" with all the sordid details that will put ~"MONICA'S MOTHER"~ to shame. It's in the works with your picture hoping someone who knows you will reply.



Has anyone else had a similar experience? Is there a pattern to this? I know of so many others who have taken this path after divorce. Is this a set-up?

Has anyone ever had their lawyer feed them this line after taking away their spousal support?

"It may be you in his new wife's shoes next. Who would want a man who pays a chunk of his income to his ex-wife? No one wants a man like that."

At this point you know you're on death row, compliments of your Canadian divorce lawyer.

I know what you're thinking ... ... this must be ~"The Curse of the Canadian Divorce Lawyer"~ deal. Yes, indeed it is! Well, since when can lawyers be trusted in Canada? Since when can anyone with a University degree be trusted in Canada? Yes, they can be trusted as long as they live a life of leisure, in the lap of luxury while keeping everyone else underfoot. Sounds to me like they want to fill the shoes of the Royal Family. What's the difference? The difference being that, YES, it is the Royal Family's place to have the upper hand in Canada and not the place of schmoes with University degrees.

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Christmas Day 2010 ... ... I'm Home Alone, Again.

No doubt, this is part of my scenario of  ~ "The Curse of The Canadian Divorce Lawyer" ~. This is the third year in a row that I have been home alone for the Christmas holiday that revolves around family and friends.. 

When I started this blog I was looking for my oldest daughter, Ava, who I still have not found and her emails are now few and far between.  She doesn't return my phone calls to her cell phone voice mail.  Several weeks ago I also lost the privilege of knowing the whereabouts of my younger daughter, Monica, although I can still get in touch with her on her cell phone.  Monica is in poor health and, from what I can gather, is in receipt of welfare when she should be receiving the Ontario Disability Benefit so that her health will be monitored regularly. Monica is now living on her own and so is also estranged from her Mother, Father and Sister.  I am still working part-time for minimum wage and also living off my line of credit to pay my living expenses. 

My situation continues to worsen, Monica's health continues to deteriorate and Ava continues on a different path leaving us both behind even after creating this blog and all the articles The Toronto Star and other newspapers have printed on this topic, all my visits to lawyers and doctors who offered no help and letters, emails and appointments with Government agencies.  All this effort has been futile where I am concerned.  I just sit and wait until it's my turn on the queue for the next fall to a lower realm.  No one can accuse me that it's been for my lack of trying to pull through.

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