After six years of a bitter divorce battle, the kids have grown up and there’s no end insight to the bickering. The ex-husband, who ditched me for another woman, who four years later ditched him, wants me (his first wife) to be nice and put it all behind me and so do the kids, if I know what's good for me. I had it coming. And if I do, maybe he’ll let me see my kids and tell me where they are. Do they care where their mother is? No. My ex-husband and the kids’ neighborhood friends, teachers and counselors engrave this in their brains.
Well, I should take this to a lawyer or police. What for? The kids are over 18 and can do whatever they want. The law makes sure of it. Parents are no one important. Enough to drive a mother to suicide but don’t tell the authorities or they’ll lock you up in the nut house. It’s what they do. Will you ever see your kids again? It’s not their job. Lots more where I come from. I “wasn’t a good mother,” of course, this is understood as far as they're concerned. It must be in all their training manuals because it’s a standard answer along with “can’t make these kids do anything if they don’t want to.” Just to make you feel totally insignificant and make you regret the day you reported it and called them into the picture. Can they make a mother stop complaining? They’ll make sure of it. “Time heals all wounds.” No, not in this case.
I live in a Country where everyone, just everyone gets divorced these days just so that all those lawyers (too many) who would otherwise have nothing to do, can earn “the big bucks” and take us all to the cleaners. When business gets a little slow, they go for another round of broken marriages. The Country’s divorce laws are never enforced but hey, don’t complain, they have the option to lock you up at the snap of a finger and no one will ask them any questions. There's a code of secrecy.
This is Canada? It is entering the 21st century. Is this considered fascism or communism or a dictatorship? Well, we don’t have a dictator leading the Country. Are you sure? It's a time in history where anyone with a University degree, if given the opportunity, can kill you with no questions being asked. Isn’t this abuse of power? No, it’s life in Canada.
Well, I should take this to a lawyer or police. What for? The kids are over 18 and can do whatever they want. The law makes sure of it. Parents are no one important. Enough to drive a mother to suicide but don’t tell the authorities or they’ll lock you up in the nut house. It’s what they do. Will you ever see your kids again? It’s not their job. Lots more where I come from. I “wasn’t a good mother,” of course, this is understood as far as they're concerned. It must be in all their training manuals because it’s a standard answer along with “can’t make these kids do anything if they don’t want to.” Just to make you feel totally insignificant and make you regret the day you reported it and called them into the picture. Can they make a mother stop complaining? They’ll make sure of it. “Time heals all wounds.” No, not in this case.
I live in a Country where everyone, just everyone gets divorced these days just so that all those lawyers (too many) who would otherwise have nothing to do, can earn “the big bucks” and take us all to the cleaners. When business gets a little slow, they go for another round of broken marriages. The Country’s divorce laws are never enforced but hey, don’t complain, they have the option to lock you up at the snap of a finger and no one will ask them any questions. There's a code of secrecy.
This is Canada? It is entering the 21st century. Is this considered fascism or communism or a dictatorship? Well, we don’t have a dictator leading the Country. Are you sure? It's a time in history where anyone with a University degree, if given the opportunity, can kill you with no questions being asked. Isn’t this abuse of power? No, it’s life in Canada.
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