Dear Ava,

Since I didn't hear from you I followed through with the Police Report.
I included:
1) Not hearing from you or knowing your whereabouts for the past 7 months.
2) The slander done to me by Dan & His Bitch (now ex-wife) Dan's family members, my family members and you can add to it people who say they know me but don't, to the point of no return and me not being able to find employment and being persecuted for child abuse by my co-workers and superiors (not to mention "Hooking") all of which never happened, but thanks to the slander by Dan & his family, I have to put up with all this. Slander is a criminal offense. (That part's true).
3) Other miscellaneous details.
Yes, under the circumstances, they will follow up.
I'm picking your sister up to come for a visit today.If I disappear or any harm comes to me, they have the report. (That part's true)
I've decided to set up a BLOG "AVA WHERE ARE YOU, LOVE MOM, XOXOX" with all the sordid details that will put ~"MONICA'S MOTHER"~ to shame. It's in the works with your picture hoping someone who knows you will reply.



Has anyone else had a similar experience? Is there a pattern to this? I know of so many others who have taken this path after divorce. Is this a set-up?

Has anyone ever had their lawyer feed them this line after taking away their spousal support?

"It may be you in his new wife's shoes next. Who would want a man who pays a chunk of his income to his ex-wife? No one wants a man like that."

At this point you know you're on death row, compliments of your Canadian divorce lawyer.

I know what you're thinking ... ... this must be ~"The Curse of the Canadian Divorce Lawyer"~ deal. Yes, indeed it is! Well, since when can lawyers be trusted in Canada? Since when can anyone with a University degree be trusted in Canada? Yes, they can be trusted as long as they live a life of leisure, in the lap of luxury while keeping everyone else underfoot. Sounds to me like they want to fill the shoes of the Royal Family. What's the difference? The difference being that, YES, it is the Royal Family's place to have the upper hand in Canada and not the place of schmoes with University degrees.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

After six years of a bitter divorce battle, the kids have grown up and there’s no end insight to the bickering. The ex-husband, who ditched me for another woman, who four years later ditched him, wants me (his first wife) to be nice and put it all behind me and so do the kids, if I know what's good for me. I had it coming. And if I do, maybe he’ll let me see my kids and tell me where they are. Do they care where their mother is? No. My ex-husband and the kids’ neighborhood friends, teachers and counselors engrave this in their brains.

Well, I should take this to a lawyer or police. What for? The kids are over 18 and can do whatever they want. The law makes sure of it. Parents are no one important. Enough to drive a mother to suicide but don’t tell the authorities or they’ll lock you up in the nut house. It’s what they do. Will you ever see your kids again? It’s not their job. Lots more where I come from. I “wasn’t a good mother,” of course, this is understood as far as they're concerned. It must be in all their training manuals because it’s a standard answer along with “can’t make these kids do anything if they don’t want to.” Just to make you feel totally insignificant and make you regret the day you reported it and called them into the picture. Can they make a mother stop complaining? They’ll make sure of it. “Time heals all wounds.” No, not in this case.

I live in a Country where everyone, just everyone gets divorced these days just so that all those lawyers (too many) who would otherwise have nothing to do, can earn “the big bucks” and take us all to the cleaners. When business gets a little slow, they go for another round of broken marriages. The Country’s divorce laws are never enforced but hey, don’t complain, they have the option to lock you up at the snap of a finger and no one will ask them any questions. There's a code of secrecy.

This is Canada? It is entering the 21st century. Is this considered fascism or communism or a dictatorship? Well, we don’t have a dictator leading the Country. Are you sure? It's a time in history where anyone with a University degree, if given the opportunity, can kill you with no questions being asked. Isn’t this abuse of power? No, it’s life in Canada.

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