Dear Ava,

Since I didn't hear from you I followed through with the Police Report.
I included:
1) Not hearing from you or knowing your whereabouts for the past 7 months.
2) The slander done to me by Dan & His Bitch (now ex-wife) Dan's family members, my family members and you can add to it people who say they know me but don't, to the point of no return and me not being able to find employment and being persecuted for child abuse by my co-workers and superiors (not to mention "Hooking") all of which never happened, but thanks to the slander by Dan & his family, I have to put up with all this. Slander is a criminal offense. (That part's true).
3) Other miscellaneous details.
Yes, under the circumstances, they will follow up.
I'm picking your sister up to come for a visit today.If I disappear or any harm comes to me, they have the report. (That part's true)
I've decided to set up a BLOG "AVA WHERE ARE YOU, LOVE MOM, XOXOX" with all the sordid details that will put ~"MONICA'S MOTHER"~ to shame. It's in the works with your picture hoping someone who knows you will reply.



Has anyone else had a similar experience? Is there a pattern to this? I know of so many others who have taken this path after divorce. Is this a set-up?

Has anyone ever had their lawyer feed them this line after taking away their spousal support?

"It may be you in his new wife's shoes next. Who would want a man who pays a chunk of his income to his ex-wife? No one wants a man like that."

At this point you know you're on death row, compliments of your Canadian divorce lawyer.

I know what you're thinking ... ... this must be ~"The Curse of the Canadian Divorce Lawyer"~ deal. Yes, indeed it is! Well, since when can lawyers be trusted in Canada? Since when can anyone with a University degree be trusted in Canada? Yes, they can be trusted as long as they live a life of leisure, in the lap of luxury while keeping everyone else underfoot. Sounds to me like they want to fill the shoes of the Royal Family. What's the difference? The difference being that, YES, it is the Royal Family's place to have the upper hand in Canada and not the place of schmoes with University degrees.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Mother’s Day

I spent this Mother’s Day alone, again. My younger daughter called to wish me Happy Mother’s Day last night but I haven’t heard from Ava. My younger daughter didn’t want to visit me today even though I offered to pick her up. Well, of course I can’t pick her up because I don’t know her address and I can’t go to the authorities because as far as they’re concerned it’s none of my business where either of my daughters are. When I ask my daughter “Why?” I get the usual answer, “It’s not about you, it’s about me.” I wonder who fed them that line to say to their mother?

Not seeing my daughters on special occasions has been going on now for seven years. It’s my ex-husband and his family’s way of making sure I understand I’m no one important. Speaking to lawyers so far has gotten me nowhere. I get the same reply every time, “Give it up!” They have no intention of fighting this for me because they don’t have to. Now that my daughters are both over eighteen I don’t see them at all. The legal profession made sure of it.

I remember when my daughters were in Grade 3 in elementary school and they were tested for giftedness and I was told in both cases that they were borderline gifted. Actually, they were both gifted but since neither parent had a University degree the teachers downgrade it to “Borderline Gifted”. Now that some time has passed and our destinies have gone to pot, I wonder what good is all this giftedness? I’m convinced that since the school system identifies these gifted children through testing, the school staff makes sure they lose their giftedness before they can cash in on it. My daughters were gifted once, not any more. These things are genetic so their mother must have also been gifted once, not any more. After all, for who THEY are, their children are the best suited for giftedness and why don’t they see just what they can do about this? As if they can, somehow, supernaturally, steal my children’s gifts and transfer these gifts to their children? Well, why stop at one lifetime? Why don’t they just take all our gifts and keep them for themselves for all eternity? When I stop to think about it, knowing how insane these higher learners are, once they’ve dealt with everyone who does not own a B.A., I’m sure they’ll turn on each other to continue to improve upon themselves, and, when it comes right down to it, I’m sure they’ll wonder if their children REALLY deserve these gifts and they’ll decide to just keep all this giftedness for themselves!

And so, yet another important day on the calendar has passed without a visit from my daughters and that’s another blow to my psyche and self esteem. Looks like their scheme is going as planned. One more nail in my coffin and it won’t be long before they bury me and find a new victim to practice their craft on. 

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