Dear Ava,

Since I didn't hear from you I followed through with the Police Report.
I included:
1) Not hearing from you or knowing your whereabouts for the past 7 months.
2) The slander done to me by Dan & His Bitch (now ex-wife) Dan's family members, my family members and you can add to it people who say they know me but don't, to the point of no return and me not being able to find employment and being persecuted for child abuse by my co-workers and superiors (not to mention "Hooking") all of which never happened, but thanks to the slander by Dan & his family, I have to put up with all this. Slander is a criminal offense. (That part's true).
3) Other miscellaneous details.
Yes, under the circumstances, they will follow up.
I'm picking your sister up to come for a visit today.If I disappear or any harm comes to me, they have the report. (That part's true)
I've decided to set up a BLOG "AVA WHERE ARE YOU, LOVE MOM, XOXOX" with all the sordid details that will put ~"MONICA'S MOTHER"~ to shame. It's in the works with your picture hoping someone who knows you will reply.



Has anyone else had a similar experience? Is there a pattern to this? I know of so many others who have taken this path after divorce. Is this a set-up?

Has anyone ever had their lawyer feed them this line after taking away their spousal support?

"It may be you in his new wife's shoes next. Who would want a man who pays a chunk of his income to his ex-wife? No one wants a man like that."

At this point you know you're on death row, compliments of your Canadian divorce lawyer.

I know what you're thinking ... ... this must be ~"The Curse of the Canadian Divorce Lawyer"~ deal. Yes, indeed it is! Well, since when can lawyers be trusted in Canada? Since when can anyone with a University degree be trusted in Canada? Yes, they can be trusted as long as they live a life of leisure, in the lap of luxury while keeping everyone else underfoot. Sounds to me like they want to fill the shoes of the Royal Family. What's the difference? The difference being that, YES, it is the Royal Family's place to have the upper hand in Canada and not the place of schmoes with University degrees.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

It's Tuesday, November 24, 2009, and I Still Don't Know Where My Daughters Are!

Christmas is just around the corner and my phone call contact with my younger daughter is now dwindling and with my older daughter is non-existent.  Who needs Mom?

Last year I found myself alone on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day so I decided to go to Christmas Eve Mass (actually, I caught two services at different Churches at different times) and I woke up on Christmas Day and ventured out, again, to Christmas Day Mass.  It was wonderful for about an hour during the Christmas festivities not to be all alone.  Of course, I hoped that on Christmas Day my daughters would come around, at least come for a short visit, but that was not the case.  I was lucky to receive a phone call from my youngest but no contact with my oldest.  The children are too old to deal with through the legal system, but then again, the lawyers refused to deal with my child custody issues from the day I set foot into the first lawyer’s office, and thanks to the restraining orders my ex-husband connived, and succeeded, to have laid on me, it appears that I haven’t got a hope in hell of ever seeing my children again!

If you are divorced and find yourself alone on Christmas Day, I sincerely recommend you attend your Church’s Christmas services to help to break the isolation.  I’ve been attending Sunday Mass regularly now and this also helps to break the isolation.

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